Bloggers – The Holy Grail of Reviewers
I’ve been fortunate enough to have snagged the attention of a couple of bloggers recently with my debut novel “Climbing The Walls“.
Mind you, to date I must’ve emailed over 100 bloggers, with about a .0000000001% response rate, and then after sending my book to the few who DID respond… ***crickets***!!!
So I’m eternally humbled and grateful, and so thrilled that these two bloggers took the time and attention to lovingly describe aspects of my book that I myself couldn’t have written better.
I’ll share a few snippets here from my two recent reviews from:
- Eileen Omosa – www.eileenomosa.com – Review of “Climbing The Walls”
- Debjani Ghosh – debjanisthoughts.wordpress.com – Review of “Climbing The Walls”
The Difference of Detail with a “Blogger” Review
While there are more verbose reviewers who write quite a bit, a typical review usually ranges anywhere from a one-liner to a few paragraphs and focuses on what the reader “liked” and “didn’t like” about the book.
A blogger’s review may do the same, but I’ve found most bloggers would go deeper and unpack the themes and issues they experienced while reading.
As a past Literature student who spent hours ripping apart themes of the books I studied, it’s such a weird and warm feeling to have that done to your own works, by bloggers who in their own right are writers themselves!
I love how Debjani’s review opens, with the line:
“We’re Kris and Nicole. We’re supposed to fit.”
This goes straight to the essence of the story — Kris and Nicole intended to defy all the nay-sayers by having the best relationship possible, and that quote from Nicole shows her insecurity in that moment of doubt where she feels so out of sync with Kris.
Similarly, Eileen also goes straight to the heart of the story:
“How much is too little, enough, or too much sex?”
Kris and Nicole, and their friends with whom they interact, are often talking about sex — which Kris and Nicole have loads of, sure, but it doesn’t make their marriage perfect. Behind closed doors, sex becomes a weapon or a mind game, and it’s the reason Kris has often buckled and gave in, against his better judgement.
The Theme of “Friendship”
Eileen brought up the important theme of friendship, and she was the first reader to zero in on that in her review:
“Are friendships outside of marriage ‘real’, or limited to what the other partner allows?”
Friendship is a key undercurrent theme of the series. Nicole, a sexy and promiscuous waitress prior to marrying Kris, has always struggled with female friendships, and finds more in common with her career-driven boss Darren. But male-female relationships get complicated fast, particularly when his own marriage is on shaky ground.
Kris is close to both men and women, primarily his coworkers Bryan and Vicki, and he also has a close friend from his past, J.J. His world and Nicole’s world don’t often collide in terms of friendships.
Notably, when they are struggling in their relationship, neither Nicole nor Kris initially reach out to confide in these “friends” — even Nicole, who has been hearing Darren’s marriage woes for months.
As these relationships all intertwine inextricably, it brings to the fore whether “friendship” is as important to either party, once their “relationship”/”marriage” begins, and which should take precedence.
Children’s Role in a Marriage
I love that Eileen brings up the topic:
“Would marriages of the various couples in the book survive if they did not have young children to raise?”
This is a question I ask myself when writing, all the time.
When you first fall for someone — chemistry, fireworks, explosion — it’s not the same relationship you will have years down the line, when you have children and your days are preoccupied with school runs, dirty diapers, and chores.
For Darren and Luisa especially, the fact that they already had two kids surely would have impacted their decision to stay together despite her infidelity.
Those kinds of questions are at the heart of my genre I like to call “real-life” romance.
In my series, children are important, yes. And they get the best, cutest scenes! Debjani mentions:
“Fortuné’s writing is vividly descriptive. I could picture Kris planting a sloppy kiss on Kiki, his five-year-old precocious daughter’s forehead. I could also picture him kissing the two-year-old Khai’s chubby cheeks. Lastly, I could also picture Nicole watching all of them… from afar.”
It takes a lot for Nicole to eventually come to a point where she is really ready to surmount her own damaged past and make her family a priority.
Adultery & Forgiveness
And finally, we come to the overriding crux of the “Hart & Cole” series. As Eileen asks:
“What is forgiveness? Is adultery the worst crime in marriage, how do couples deal with it whenever one or both of them commit adultery?”
Adultery is everywhere throughout the book — Nicole’s parents’ relationship was fraught with it, Darren’s and Luisa’s marriage is tainted by it, and there are dashes of it everywhere you turn with other minor individuals and couples.
At the end of the day, a relationship isn’t often what it looks like on the outside, and it can be a daily battle just to maintain that façade among friends and family.
Eileen notes:
“Reading the book kept me reflective on issues of friendships in and out of marriage, parenthood, work and employment, and what it takes to live with another adult.”
And Debjani states:
“If you want to read a gritty, real, and raw romance novel, then pick up Climbing the Walls by Sacha T. Y. Fortuné. If you are married, then you are bound to glimpse a slice of your marriage in this book.”
It isn’t all hearts and rainbows, but there is a lot to unpack here, and a lot of love. Overall, the story of “Climbing The Walls” aims to show that adultery doesn’t happen in isolation, and there are no easy answers to how to cope with it.
I hope you’ve enjoyed my recap here. Be sure to read the two full blogger reviews, and check out their other book reviews on their sites:
- Eileen Omosa – www.eileenomosa.com – Review of “Climbing The Walls”
- Debjani Ghosh – debjanisthoughts.wordpress.com – Review of “Climbing The Walls”
